Kate McDevitt
Domestic Life & Adoption

"Perhaps the greatest social service that can be rendered by anybody to the country and to mankind is to bring up a family."
-George Bernard Shaw


 <picture of Kate's family>   On a rainy Sunday morning, three families waited hesitantly at the gates for the arrival of a plane. They were there to meet their daughters, who were flying in from a small airport in India. What was special about these unions was that the families only knew their daughters from a small passport-sized black-and-white glossy photo. But that morning, when the two year old girls were carried off the plane, their mothers wasted no time at all before embracing them in warm, tight hugs. And I, an only child up to that point, spent a long drive home in the backseat with my new sister. She spent the drive picking grains of salt off saltine crackers and eating them one by one. She spent the next week singing herself to sleep in her crib in Hindi. She spent hours eating food protectively and pointing out the window, confused. She spent nights in the bathtub being de-liced and introduced to bath toys. And she spent the next several months in the hospital with a bout of Malaria. There, she was given life-saving treatment, as much ice cream as she could eat, and allowed to sleep with her prized “dues”(shoes) on. A few months after that, she was back in the hospital with a rare second strain of Malaria. This year, she started high school, is taking honors courses, and is a varsity gymnast. Had she remained in India for more than two months, her disease would have developed, untreated, and killed her before she reached age three.
~Kate McDevitt


Introduction: 
             Children make an interesting and unique topic to study, because there are organizations in the world not only to aid and protect them, but also to relocate them to better conditions. Unfortunately, not so many children are so lucky as my sister. Children face many dangers in the third world, from warfare to starvation, from child labor to disease-ridden water. The one threat that is shared by children all around the world, both in the developed world and the third world is that of domestic abuse. A child’s domestic life is formed before he or she is even born, and can directly affect the child from the moment of birth. The domestic environment includes the physical lifestyle, the parental and family views of the child, and the parental and family treatment of the child. There are a wide variety of problems associated with each in the third world countries, but also a number of programs and organizations who identify and deal with these issues.
Topics:
The domestic life and adoption section is organized in a general pattern of: problems, solutions, personal story for readers to better understand the issues at hand and the organizations making a positive impact. 

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Problems- Deaths at Birth:

             Problems can strike children from the moment of conception and before they are born due to environmental factors and cultural situations. Infant mortality rates (IMR) are decreasing worldwide on average, as are the rates in the developing world but the decrease is too gradual to save so many. According to the UNICEF statistics shown in the graph here, an average of 63 out of 1000 live births die each year in developing countries. In the least developed countries of the world, it is 102 of 1000, a significant difference from the industrial world’s average of 6. Deaths at birth are many times due to poor health and nutrition of mothers, but in addition a significant number are aborted or murdered at birth. Sometimes the cause is simple unwanted or unsupportable children in cases where birth control has not been used or has failed. But many times the cause is an unwanted baby. If a child is born significantly small, deformed, or terribly weak, some parents prefer to kill it immediately rather than spend resources to feed a child which will suffer and probably die soon anyway. In regions where families much work to survive, another pair of hands is critical for working the land or working in shops. 

             And the stereotypical but cultural view is that men do make better workers and the better choice in a child. Even in core countries when a choice is given, a boy baby is preferred. With men come power, ability to hold land, ability to work, and ability to provide much more. Further on, this paper will discuss what impacts is has on girls in society, but the simplified view is that girls are weak and less profitable. So in families where there are already “too many girls” a newly-born baby girl may be killed. In India, selective-sex abortions are common. According to the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, India and China rate highest in female infanticides (India at 12.3 per 100,000 and China at 15.5 per 100,000). These high rates are due to the culture and societies. In India, the dowry system controls the lives of women, who are treated as property; in the poorest regions, they are values less than cattle. Palaniamma from Nalampalli, India tells best the story of a husband and family wanting a son rather than a girl, “As soon as the baby girl was born, my mother-in-law kicked it with her toe and said, 'Who wants this?' She wrapped it in a wet towel and left it on the floor. My husband's sister, weak after the delivery, just wept. It died within a few hours”(6). Population control methods in China are partially to blame for high female infanticide. When families are restricted to only two children, the desire is to have two boys. And especially in families where there is a girl already, a newly-born baby girl will be killed, unwanted, in hopes of the next child being a boy. Even in cases where children survive birth, they will struggle through much in order to live in “unfair” societies. 'Lai-De' or 'Zheo-Di' are quite popular names for girls(over 6 million) in China as both mean 'next time bring a boy'.

Regional IMR

 1960

 1980

 2000

Sub-Saharan Africa 153 119 108
Middle East and North Africa 157 92 49
South Asia 148 115 72
East Asia and Pacific 140 55 34
Latin America and Caribbean 102 62 30
CEE/CIS and Baltic States 78 45 30
Industrialized countries 31 12 6
Developing countries 141 88 63
Least developed countries 170 130 102
World 126 79 57
Source: UNICEF Stats
Another, detailed chart: SocialWatch

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Solutions- Family Planning & Infanticide Prevention:
 
          There are many programs in place throughout the third world which deal with family planning issues. A common image associated with family planning in the third world is of Mother Teresa and her orphanages, saying "if you do not want your unborn child, bring it to us and we will raise it." But the sort of natural planning that is defined through the lines of religions has had little success in hindering the population boom of the third world. While the common trend is for governments to set regulations and standards, there are also organizations which are stepping in to make access to family planning available to mothers. One group which has made a move in this area is Population Services International which is the largest nonprofit distributor of family planning products in the developing world. “PSI packages, ships, and distributes more than half a billion condoms annually. We are a major distributor of oral contraceptives, injectable contraceptives, IUDs, female condoms and emergency contraception. PSI distributes 80% of all contraceptives available in Nigeria”(14). Non-government organizations(NGO's) can be much more flexible than government programs, and thus can reach more people, help in rural areas, and provide higher quality of care. The Planned Parenthood Association in South Africa, for example, works with socially dislocated (and thus vulnerable to sexual situations) young people in helping them make proper decisions and have needed resources. There are many examples of how family planning helps women and families, but most of all it helps the children. Children are born when and where they can be cared for and supported. Having fewer and farther-in-between children means the children have a greater chance to be born healthy and stay that way. This regulation helps the population as well as the quality of life the children born will have. <Couple-Years of Protection Chart>
Source: PSI's Distributions



<picture of a woman and her children>
<picture  of nurse, two mothers and babies> Nurse Sarojini in Nalampalli, India with Sudha and Pushpalatha, two babies she helped save.

            The problem of infanticide and gerndercide is enormous, and though there have been a few strides taken, the problem is still present. The government in India attempted several activities, such as the Girl Child Protection Scheme, but ability to carry it out and enforce it have failed. This is where NGO’s have stepped in to help. For example, Association and Liberation of Vagaris and Other Minorities (ALVOM), one Swedish NGO which works with domestic NGO’s in India to prevent infanticide. In India, a number of organizations have helped in areas such as reporting cases to the police, counseling expected mothers and involving social workers, offering monetary incentives to families, providing childcare support, and raising awareness in general in many different ways. In the realm of promoting awareness, websites such as http://www.infanticide.org, http://www.gendercide.org/, and http://elandee.com/asia/ promote awareness for the internet-able. By educating more about the events of the world, more organizations and individuals can step up to provide assistance. In China, the solutions are few and currently focusing on public education, counseling, and voluntary participation and compliance to reduce unplanned pregnancies and unwanted births. There is also talk of enforcing the laws against illegal pre-birth gender identification tests. The International Network for the Rights of Female Victims of Violence in Pakistan is also addressing the problem of deaths of female children by organizing small efforts and promoting awareness through study and education.  


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Personal Story

<picture of Andal Damodaran and other Award Finalists> Mrs. Andal Damodaran of Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India
"Andal Damodaran is one of India's greatest advocates for children's rights. Recipient of the Indian government's National Child Welfare Award in 1985, Damodaran has dedicated the past 28 years of her life to preventing both female infanticide and the exploitation of children through child labor. In addition, her work has focused on providing protection and schooling for child beggars and training for India's childcare workers.
Damodaran is the honorary general secretary of the Indian Council for Child Welfare in Tamil Nadu. Her accomplishments through the Council since 1973 include:
Prevention of Female Infanticide: Damodaran helped reduce the number of recorded female infanticides in the Southern district of Tamil Nadu from 200 in 1991 to just seven in 2001. This was achieved through the Programme for Prevention of Female Infanticide, created in 1987, which covers 309 hamlets where female infanticide was most prevalent. The program offers monitoring and counseling to pregnant women, post- and pre-natal health care, self-help groups for women, counseling to encourage attitudinal changes toward the female child, educational and vocational training support for female children, and image-building training for adolescent girls. Today, the empowered women's groups in 289 hamlets have taken up monitoring and preventing female infanticide. Likewise, the adolescent girls have formed groups and taken an oath against committing this crime.
[as well as:] Eradication and Prevention of Child Labor and Exploitation, Schooling for Child Beggars, Protection for Street Children, Childcare and Training, and Organizational Involvement and Leadership. Damodaran was born Dec. 15, 1940, in Chennai (Madras) India."
~2001 Kellogg’s Hannah Neil World of Children Award Finalists (12)

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Resources used for the domestic life and adoption section (Page 1): 

  1. "Abandoned Children and Infants" , Justin D. Long, Monday Morning Reality Check, 1998.
  2. Asian Cartoon and Animation Project: Female Infanticide
  3. "Case Study: Female Infanticide", Gendercide Watch, 1999-2000.
  4. Charts on Infant Mortality, Social Watch, 2001. Sources include the State of the World's Children (UNICEF) 1999 and The Statistical Yearbook (UN) 1999.
  5. Child Mortality , UNICEF Statistics, End Decade Databases.
  6. "Chilling Deaths", by Gita Aravamudan of The Week(Indian Weekly News Magazine), January 24, 1999.
  7. "Epidemology of Violent Deaths in the World", by A Reza, J A Mercy, E Krug of the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control and the World Health Organization, July 16, 2001.
  8. "Female Infanticide in Tamil Nadi, India: From Recognition Back to Denial?" Sabu M. George.
  9. Gendercide Watch, site for raising awareness
  10. "Implementing the ICPD Programme of Action", State of the World Population Special Report, UNFPA 1997.
  11. The International Network for the Rights of Female Victims of Violence in Pakistan
  12. Mrs. Andal Damodaran, 2001 Kellogg’s Hannah Neil World of Children Award Finalists, 2001.
  13. The National Family Planning Program of China 1995-2000, Populations and Family Planning: Laws, Policies, and Regualtions.
  14. Population Services International, 2002.
  15. The Society for the Prevention of Infanticide, 1998.

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